Monsters

good evening reader,
 now for this post i have no idea what i'm going to say, so i'm going to talk about Alice in Wonderland.

Now, as we know, Alice goes through many different stages of growing, shrinking and changing. Eating one side of the mushroom, the cake, drinking the potion. Neither of these things were particularly pleasant for poor Alice, however once she had changed, she learned to live with the change until she could find a way to find herself again.

and if that's not a metaphor then I don't know what is.

reader, if you are going through a difficult change at the moment, then I suggest you do your best to learn to live with it, until you can find yourself again. Panicking does not help find an answer, and I assure you as soon as you smile and learn to love yourself your changes won't seem as hard as they were at first.

Life may still not be perfect, but, I kept to my word: it does get better.

And even if it's not a whole lot better, you can soon learn to live with what you have been given, then it will get even better. And maybe not soon, but eventually you will have not only found yourself, but you will be happy and learn to experience life, not just tolerate it.

The best things really do come to those who wait.

Don't get me wrong, my childhood wasn't the best. it certainly wasn't the worst, but I think that if I understood what was going on around me it would have affected me a whole lot more. Luckily, I knew how to get on with life, despite the rubbish background, and people literally call me the "happiest girl alive".

This post was very deep today, but I felt like being inspiring. Have a good day tomorrow- stay safe!

lots of love, Jess Littlemiss xox

10 things to make you happy

Happiness is everlasting with some rude interruptions, that's how I see it. Sometimes you can have everything you could ever wish for and still not be happy.

So I've made a list of 10, none expensive things that could possibly make you happy. How do I know this? I am literally the happiest person on earth.

So here we go:-)

number 1: Making others happy. Compliment a stranger, pay a street performer, do something charitable. Seeing a smile on someone's face automatically makes you mirror their expressions!

number 2: Singing/dancing to yourself. Even if its on a big stage in front of many people, or just in the comfort of your own shower, singing and dancing can make you enjoy life that little bit more.

number 3: doing something active. Now hear me out, exercise: Ew. But recently I've been doing a lot of hikes and walking and that's made me a lot more chilled and stress-free.

number 4: Being organised. Nothing is more satisfying than opening your lipstick/nail polish tray and it being colour coded and looking beautiful, or having files in chronological order. It takes a lot of time, however the amount of satisfaction you get from it is overflowing!

number 5: Having a chilled day. I love those lazy days when you wake up late, grab a coffee, bake something yummy and watch a movie (probably a Disney film).

Number 6: Spending time with friends. Going out and having a laugh, maybe playing t/d or just grabbing a pizza with your best friends is a real fun thing to do.

Number 7: Learning something new. You don't have to read an entire book on biology or whatever. But learning something new that you can tell everyone about is great.

Number 8: Listening to music! Going to Spotify or the Good Ole Youtube and listening to your favourite song or songs you've never heard of puts a smile on your face.

Number 9: Feeling clean. I love cleansing my face with a face mask and over-brushing my teeth:-) There is a large dose of happiness that you feel after having a nice clean up.

Number 10: Finding new makeup looks/ hairstyles to do. I often search up "hipster hair/makeup" and see what comes up in Tumblr.

I hope this advice is helpful!
Love, jess littlemiss xox